I discovered that the secret to a successful realationship was to work harder on myself than on my spouse!
I had always blamed my spouse for the failure, I never thought for a second…Maybe I had something to do with it!
All my relationships had followed a similar pattern of failure, and what was the "Lowest Common Denominator" in all this?
The answer was me!
I could also see the same patterns in friends and colleagues relationships too!
Now I'm not saying you're to blame…Far from it!
What I am saying is that you have the abilty 100% to change yourself, and ZERO% ability to make your spouse change against their will.
Fight the battles that can be won!